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Why This Matters
Girls today face intense social pressure – from unrealistic beauty standards to toxic relationships while trying to meet career expectations.
If you scroll down, you will see there is so much here on many topics..
This site is full of very interesting content designed just for young women ages 14 -17. There are links to videos (some made by me, very amateurish, but trying to get the message across), and question forms for you to really think about your answers to all of the questions. Your journaling and answers to questions on the Google forms are only for your viewing. This masterclass is only for you... private and confidential.
I advise journaling so you can review what you write, which will be very helpful to move through some steps so you can think about your answers to learn more about yourself. Enjoy!!
If you want some coaching, call me on (61)0467749146. Private or Group Sessions.
Kind regards
Shree Danistha
So the Rise Stronger masterclass, is designed to help you connect with your inner self, and bring clarity to you - it is aimed to give you a new refreshing sense of self, more informed and and empowered moving forward. How does that happen? By learning about things that you havent heard before in an order to unlock a door of understanding. Hopefully it wil change your heart. Lighten you up.. Make you feel its a bit easier and its not as hard as maybe you thought.. Thats my plan and I am 100% sure with my guidance, and strategies that you will be looking at your life very differently
This will help you, so you can make choices that are in alignment with your true self. There are several google forms with questions about each topic. You get to answer these questions in provate, no one will see q=ior know your answers so this site is a privte resource for you to come back to and reflect and learn from.
2. Your journey is yours alone. It’s about realizing that there’s no one “right” way to go through life. The experiences you’ve had, and the choices you make, are part of shaping your own path. This series will help you understand how to trust your instincts and let you know that there’s no need to rush or compare yourself to others. Every step you take on your path is valuable.
3. You Are Worthy of Success: Often, life can make you feel like you don’t deserve success or that it’s hard to find. But this video is here to show you that you do deserve all the opportunities and success life has to offer. This clarity will give you the courage to step up, take risks, and pursue your dreams without second-guessing yourself.
By focusing on purpose first, we lay the groundwork for everything that comes next. You’ll learn to trust yourself, follow your dreams, and build the confidence you need to go after them—knowing that everything is possible when you understand your purpose.
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Looking at Common Social Behaviours
This is where we start.. Looking at the way we think and behave. What motivates people? People live in joy but also fear about loss and so operate at a fast pace to cope with the pressures about money and also the social stresses. There are people that want to do the right thing and there are people who want to do the same thing as others or outdo others. Why are people conscious of "fitting in"? This is the first topic of the program. Its taking a look at that. Why do people fear looking wrong and say the thing that suits the narrative, what people want to hear?
Alot of pressure is on people because other people talk about the things happening around them. To prevent feeling like a failure, people highlight their strengths in front of others. people want to "fit in". Sometimes, however, people are hard on others, judging them. Usually its one of the following three reasons
- It's because of their skills or lack of skills,
- It's because of the way they look or
-it's about how much money they have or some material thing they own or share.
So you might be at a stage in your life where you're still figuring what started all of this and your tired of feeling under pressure, and that you dont feel the environment is serving you, it is "too much" and it doesn't make sense.
Coping with a Difficult Situation
Well this is when you have to act in your own favour. When you are traumatised or feeling badly you need to to heal. There is a way to cope which is better than staying involved with the people or situation which is making you feel bad. The advice I give is to go and really be at one with nature. If you can commit to changing your lifestyle for a while, then take time in a peaceful tranquil place. Not only will you begin to heal but you will experience the thoughts that will help you see things clearly- see your past events like a story. A story that has some positive outcome and negative outcomes. We find peace sitting with ourselves, quietening the mind, and taking time "out" to review the situation, and the choices made leading up to the situation, and then once you have looked at the picture, then settle with the outcome...whatever it is. We can sit in peace and reflect to look at what we lost and what we have to be grateful for. During that reflective time look at what could have been done differently and then choose the outcomes you want, when you do things again in the future. Always reflect on your choices and try and make better choices. Having this mondset will keep you grounded and confident becaUse you "know" you can trust yourself to be coming from the place that will benefit you. Good choices are important for us to advance and grow as people.. Nature provides us the place to rest mentally When we come out of something traumatic or upsetting, its amazing how we can feel grateful for "nature" providing that space.. The thing is that we are blessed with an abundant world that feeds us, gives us families and friends and beauty. It also gives us "time" to evaluate our lives and look back on what we have done, look forward on what we will do. Then through "time" we get to heal completely from most situations. Its all a blessing and 'time' especially!
if you look at life with "gratitude" and you keep fixed that your life is really about keeping it "real" and being grateful and not worrying too much about keeping up with others for fashion..You can still care but just not that much. Things will always change. You need to find "you" first.. Spend time with yourself reflecting on all that you have received over time, and how fortunate you are to be alive. This form of meditation is great for surviving threough times when everything seems to fall apart because of bullying, or social gossip. you will feel better.. It is so important to step back and relax and let go of fear, anger, anxiety just for a little while.. Choosing to be in serenity, in tranquility, in the quietness. Being solitary for a while every day...well...there is no doubt about it.. it empowers you. You gather energy. It brings out your mental clarity...If you have been done badly by, it gives you the moment to decide to be stronger. You come out with a renewed sense of purpose and intent. You are literally energised by the planet's support and by time. This gift of life is not for people to keep "pushing" and "proving" and not settling...its for the other. Its for self love and learning how to love others. If you feel terrible, and your sense of self is low. You feel awkward, uncomfortable, unable to express yourself to others, then read below.
With the way there is a language of disrespect these days..kids need to be taught not be despondent or confused by any message that runs that is negative over and over again...
Be Gentle .
Be Consistent with others
Breath and Reflect for Clarity
Here are some insightful questions designed to help you reflect, and to help you align your inner thoughts. Use your journal and every day write in any new realizations you are having in your llife.
How do you define success in your life right now? How does your belief or faith influence that definition?
What aspects of your life do you feel most connected to, and how do those connections affect your sense of purpose or success?
How do you currently balance personal challenges with your aspirations and dreams?
Is there an experience in your life where your faith or beliefs changed the direction you took? How did that impact your success?
What are the key lessons you've learned on your journey toward personal success so far? How did your faith play a role in these lessons?
How do you approach setbacks, and how does faith help you respond to them?
In what areas of your life would you like to see more growth, and how can the concept of faith guide that growth?
Who or what has been the biggest source of support in your faith journey?
How have they shaped your understanding of success?
How important is having a support system of women or mentors in your path to success?
How can you build or strengthen that community?
How do you see your faith influencing the direction of your future success, both personally and professionally?
What are your long-term goals, and how do you envision faith playing a part in achieving them?
What kind of legacy or impact do you want to create with the faith and success you've cultivated in your life?
These questions are designed to spark deep reflection, facilitate open discussion, and help participants connect their personal beliefs and experiences with the concepts I am teaching in the masterclass series.
Write answers in your Journal.
Masterclass Questions: Feminine Thinking & Self-Worth
Masterclass Questions: Feminine Thinking & Self-Worth
Femininity represents intuition, self-love, emotional strength, and creative wisdom. For young women (14-24), discovering their inner value and building self-esteem starts with understanding who they truly are, breaking free from limiting beliefs, and embracing their power.
Below are questions designed to guide them on this journey, followed by explanations of why they matter.
1. Who are you when no one is watching?
1. Who are you when no one is watching?
Why it helps:
This question helps them explore their authentic self—beyond societal expectations, peer pressure, and social media influence. Many young women struggle with external validation, but true confidence comes from knowing and embracing who you really are inside.
2. What do you believe makes a woman truly powerful?
2. What do you believe makes a woman truly powerful?
Why it helps:
Young women often receive conflicting messages about power—some say it comes from beauty, others from independence. This question encourages them to define power on their own terms and recognize that strength can come from kindness, wisdom, resilience, and self-love.
3. What messages about being a woman have you absorbed from society, and which ones do you want to let go of?
3. What messages about being a woman have you absorbed from society, and which ones do you want to let go of?
Why it helps:
Many girls internalize limiting beliefs (e.g., "I must be perfect," "I shouldn't take up space," "I need to be liked by everyone"). Recognizing these false narratives allows them to rewrite their own stories and create healthier beliefs about themselves.
4. How do you treat yourself when you make a mistake? Would you speak to a friend the same way?
4. How do you treat yourself when you make a mistake? Would you speak to a friend the same way?
Why it helps:
This question reveals self-talk patterns. Many young women are their own worst critics, and this exercise helps them shift towards self-compassion. When they learn to support themselves like they would a friend, self-esteem naturally rises.
Why it helps:
This question reveals self-talk patterns. Many young women are their own worst critics, and this exercise helps them shift towards self-compassion. When they learn to support themselves like they would a friend, self-esteem naturally rises.
5. When do you feel most connected to yourself?
5. When do you feel most connected to yourself?
Why it helps:
This helps them identify activities, places, or moments that make them feel centered and powerful—whether it’s dancing, painting, being in nature, or journaling. The goal is to help them do more of what nurtures their soul.
6. What are three things about yourself that you genuinely love?
6. What are three things about yourself that you genuinely love?
Why it helps:
This is an instant confidence booster. Many women struggle to acknowledge their own greatness, so this question encourages them to affirm their strengths instead of focusing on their perceived flaws.
7. How do you set boundaries, and what happens when you don’t?
7. How do you set boundaries, and what happens when you don’t?
Why it helps:
Many young women are people-pleasers because they fear rejection. Learning to set boundaries helps them understand that self-respect is more important than approval. This question encourages them to reflect on moments when they compromised their own needs and how they can change that moving forward.
8. If you fully trusted yourself, what would you do differently in your life?
8. If you fully trusted yourself, what would you do differently in your life?
Why it helps:
This question encourages them to step into their power. It reveals the ways they hold themselves back (doubts, fears, external influences) and helps them recognize that they are strong enough to create the life they desire.
9. What does your “ Feminine” energy feel like to you?
9. What does your “ Feminine” energy feel like to you?
Why it helps:
This allows them to define femininity for themselves. It moves away from societal beauty standards and into something deeper—intuition, softness, creativity, emotional intelligence, and self-acceptance.
10. If you could give your younger self one message, what would it be?
10. If you could give your younger self one message, what would it be?
Why it helps:
Many girls carry self-doubt, regret, or pain from earlier years. By writing a loving message to their younger self, they practice forgiveness, self-love, and wisdom—which helps build confidence moving forward.
Why it helps:
Many girls carry self-doubt, regret, or pain from earlier years. By writing a loving message to their younger self, they practice forgiveness, self-love, and wisdom—which helps build confidence moving forward.
Why These Questions Will Help
Why These Questions Will Help
They Promote Self-Reflection
Many young women haven’t had a space to think deeply about their worth. These questions encourage them to look inward and find the strength that already exists within them.
They Break Down Limiting Beliefs
Many struggle with low self-esteem because they unconsciously accept negative messages from society. These questions help them identify and reject those false beliefs.
They Shift Focus to Inner Power
Instead of relying on external validation (likes, approval, appearance, etc.), these questions help them see their true value in their wisdom, intuition, and kindness.
They Build Self-Compassion
Women often judge themselves harshly. This process helps them shift from criticism to self-love, which is key to confidence.
They Encourage Authenticity
Rather than conforming to what the world expects, these questions empower them to be themselves fully—because their uniqueness is their greatest strength.
Final Message for the Masterclass
Final Message for the Masterclass
These questions will open a door for each participant to see herself in a new light. She will begin to trust herself, understand her worth, and tap into the divine energy within her that has always been there—waiting to be awakened.
This is where true confidence, self-love, and success begin.
So many of us feel flawed for many reasons and we need to change our mindset to help ourselves become the best version of ourselves. Sometimes it requires us to change our behaviours. Sometimes it requires us to change our self talk. For this webinar series, to get into the right mood start with getting rid of the "old" . If we can, we should upgrade by eliminating old clothes, or anything that makes us feel "bad" and replace with bringing in only things around us that reflect good thoughts and happy vibes. We dont need to punish ourselves, so think about ways in this way. We can start to declutter the things that are built up around us, to make our way feel lighter and is way easier to navigate. Clearing out things which make us feel overloaded is liberating.
How to Recognize Manipulative people
Acknowledge their Pattern:
Understand how they manipulate your emotions with their words or actions.
Awareness is the first step to breaking free.
Detach Emotionally: Remind yourself that their behavior reflects their issues, not your worth or value.
Set Clear Boundaries (refer to the link above. Expand the page)
Limit Contact:
If possible, minimize your interactions with them, especially in situations where they might try to manipulate you.
Be Firm:
If they try to provoke a response, calmly state your boundaries and stick to them. For example, "I need to step away from this conversation now."
Avoid Justifying:
You don’t owe them explanations for your choices.
Shift Your Perspective
See Through Their Games.
Remind yourself that their manipulations are designed to control you, not because they genuinely care.
Focus on Reality
Instead of reacting emotionally, analyze situations
logically. Ask yourself: What is their intention here?
De-personalize Their Actions
Their behavior says more about them than
about you.
Reclaim Your Emotional Space
Learn to observe your emotions without reacting immediately.
Practice Mindfulness
Breathing exercises or grounding techniques can help.
Delay Your Responses Take time to think before reacting to their words or actions. This gives you control over your emotions.
Focus on Your Own Needs Ask yourself what you truly want and need, independent of their influence.
Strengthen Your Inner Self
Affirm Your Self-Worth: Regularly remind yourself that you deserve
respect, care, and love. Use affirmations like: "I am in control of my
emotions."
Pursue Your Interests:
Invest your energy in hobbies, passions, and goals that make you happy and fulfilled.
Seek Support:
Srround yourself with positive, supportive people who uplift you and respect your boundaries.
Let Go of Guilt
Release the "Responsibility": You are not responsible for their happiness, emotional state, or reactions.
Stop Overexplaining: Detachment means recognizing you don’t owe them emotional labor.
Build Emotional Resilience (
Journal Your Thoughts: Writing can help you process your emotions and
track patterns in your responses to them.
Practice Self-Compassion: Be patient with yourself as you unlearn
conditioned responses.
Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge every step you take toward
emotional independence.
Consider Professional Support
If their manipulation has deeply affected you, a therapist can help you
unpack your feelings, set boundaries, and develop strategies to maintain
emotional detachment.
Final Thought
Detaching from manipulative people doesn’t mean becoming cold or unfeeling. It’s
about protecting your emotional well-being and reclaiming your power. By stepping
away from their games, you create space for healthier relationships and personal
growth.
NEXT...
Looking at the ways people stay strong. Sometimes people act strong in teh moment they are being bullied or let down by friends or others, but dealing with their own hurt and the real effect it has on them in private is quite serious.. Press the link below to see how people might be damaged and lose confidence.
Build Unshakable Self-Confidence
At times, we all feel stuck and feel we have not got the tools to move through life easily. When that happens we can feel angry about that, and feel burdened by not being able to speak our mind in a way that shows how we feel and what we think about the situation. The truth is that most people want to feel successful and they want to feel great. They dont want to feel guilty, blamed etc etc. You are one of those people I am guessing! You might be tough and proud of yourself for your survival skills, thinking "I am proud of how much I have been so strong and endured so much difficulty with a thick skin".
Thats great! Truly Awesome! You might feel like you are carrying around alot of emotional frustration and things have built up. If you could offload that way of existing, (feeling unable to express what you feel inside, and you would want to create a way that will serve you to feel better,) and you could allow yourself to shine in other ways that you have always wanted, then wouldn't you?
There are many services to bring you back to a happier, healthier state of mind. Coaching like I do, is one type.
There are lots of healing processes people use to be released of emotion which are now common practice and dont cost an arm and a leg-
Rebirthing
Hypnotherapy
Psychology
Acupuncture and Massage
Ways to address issues with the people you have unresolved dealings with.
--- Saying "sorry" if you carry guilt about something that happened between you and someone else.
---If you could go back and chat to any person you have insulted or argued with, sometimes that can make such a huge difference.
--- Write to them, express through conversation using "I" statements... "I felt like this when you did that...etc"
There are several tools to use in conversations and dealing with people which become second nature to us when we practice them enough..
They become easily a part of our daily interactions when we adopt the mindset that we will incorporate them into our lives.
CHOICE
A common behaviour in society nowadays is to witness someone's self worth being purposely damaged by others, We make a choice to respond or not, when provoked.
Sometimes it is too hard to think on the spot. We spiral, plumet into despair or frustration or anger, but eventually we find our way back.
We make choices to find a way to get a break from attacks, or remove ourselves from the situation. Life will always be like that, so you have to keep trying.
Stopping the cycle is often the best option rather than manipulate a situation to self empower at spomeone elses expense in an ugly way. Or instead, we can apply techniques, strategies to. Sommunicate our point of view and be prepared for counter arguments. So the option is to read and and practice techniques to get really successsful in dealing with issues.
In every moment we decide how much we give and how much we receive. We make a choice about when we start and when we stop. Many people just keep going in the "situation" and believe it wont make much difference how they apply themselves, but that is just not true. We have tools and strategies to acheive something alot better.
we need to empower ourselves with knowledge and skills to be and learn to be in control of what we feel. We do that by learning what is important, and relevant to react to..
Do we put ourselves in a place where we know we will suffer?
Do we use our choices to drive us to better place? We have free choice, and we have intelligence to use. We gather knowledge and make choices that makesevolve and live a high grade life. Mastering skillsets in other words -learning how great this knowledge is and then loving learning and practicing it, realizing that it takes you to better places when you practice it right. You apply sound knowledge to communication and interaction with others, you master a comfort with yourself, you master the skill of being fixed in meditations. By practicing mindset meditations, and doing a few other things we can greatly improve the quality of our lives
Looking at how we apply virtues and values
Its easy to start doing things differently using values and virtues because we really have been practicing them in small amounts, even unknowingly, right from when we were a little child. We all have them inside and its up to us to use them..Why? Because they make life alot easier. It is easier to feel good, easier to feel love and enjoy all of the side effects of happy relations with others..
We all k share common tools which are values and virtues. We get taught at school, and in work and especially by our parents to have values that we operate with. So there are 61 virtues and when we have an intention to ie share, or ie not bully we are appying our virtues, Also, virtues are what affect the type of thinking processes we have when we are older. People choose things to be passionate about, to value and hold dear. There are displays of behaviours when people dont use virtues Please listen to and write which virtues you would like to use in your daily life, if you do!
-Understand Personal values, strengths, and purpose.
Prioritizing rest and relaxation
Create a self-care plan that prioritizes YOUR personal well-being
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ALL GOOD THINGS START COMING TO US WHEN WE WORK WITH VALUES.
We decide to listen and be respectful to others ..friends...teachers..and we show them that they are worth listening to. We stop practicing the things that distance us from others and then we are still positively included in the setting..We have a safe place to come back to where we are accepted.
It doesn't mean we have to agree with them and it doesnt mean we have to silence our own opinions, but it is how it is done that is the most important. In the previous times, this was social courtesy and everyone had social politeness which kept the exchanges respectful..In the most part.
We get peace of mind when we make the choice to act courteosly and mind our business, which is hugely important! "Minding our business" meaning not watching others and their reactions, but just focusing on the conversation itself. Waiting for the outcomes but not being caught up in others emotions.. We are not spending our time, playing mind games with others and that is a massive release from burden..Even if they go on behaving like that, you know "thats not your thing" It soon becomes understood you dont "Bite" and people become straight shooters with you. Think if that person you know who people respect because they know they will be received fairly. It means others have to work to make a conversation with you. If they dont, no biggie. There will always be that decent person who just wants to be "real" Because being real is authentic and that means you can be yourself all of the time, without watching your back or overthinking and strategizing to outdo your frenemy.
LEARN HOW TO BE BETTER AT EVERYTHING WITH COMMUNICATION STRATEGIES
If you want some relief in the social world of communicating, lets start with a couple of basics and read the links about communication for much more information!
Toxic relations - Fill out the Google Form amd reflect on the answers you gave
Make Good Choices
Explore your decision-making strategies and be aware of how to formulate good judgement -
We will be looking at strategies very soon.
Lesson Three: Practicing Self-Compassion
- Introduce the common factors that can cause an unhealthy self image, and discuss how self-compassion can alleviate negative self-image - Explain the importance of understanding that time and mind work are essential but also new thinking and spiritual meditational practices.. This is a more expensive coaching program amd would rewuire parental input. for students under 18.
- Encourage students to challenge negative self-talk and reframe their inner dialogue with self-compassionate statements
Motivation and Achievement:
Believing in one's abilities fosters motivation to go and give life a real "go'. Set and achieve goals. Use some strategies you are drawn to here and practice. This drive can lead to a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment, enhancing overall mental health.
Press here for "Affirmations:
-How do Social prejudices, expectations, group think influence when and where we have the right to freely express
-What is too much and why? Looking at how messages are sent that affect our self esteem the divine human scheme of things ... This is a self reflection tool.
From Shree...
You know, I've come to realize something beautiful about language: it's both an art and a science. I mean, yes, there are rules like grammar and syntax — the "science" part. But there's also an art to choosing the right words, the way a painter chooses colors. Every word carries its own texture and emotion. Sometimes I even feel like each word has a little frequency or vibration to it that we can almost sense.
When we really communicate, it's not just about saying the correct words or using a big vocabulary. It's about connecting with someone on a deeper level. I truly believe that when I speak to you, you're not just hearing my words — you're feeling the intent and energy behind them. If I'm happy or sad or nervous, somehow you can hear it in my tone, can't you? We send out more than just syllables; we send out pieces of ourselves with every conversation.
I've learned that the tone and honesty behind my words often speak louder than the words themselves. There's this hidden frequency behind how we talk — a kind of unspoken message. Think about it: I could say "I'm fine" to you, but if my voice is trembling, you'll know I'm not fine at all. Or I could whisper to a baby that they're "such a troublemaker" in a sweet, playful tone, and they'd giggle, not cry. It's fascinating — and it shows that the heart behind our words matters so much.
Over time, I've tried to be more authentic and empathetic when I speak. The more honest I am and the more I truly try to understand what someone else is feeling, the more it seems like my personal "frequency" rises. It's like being genuine and caring sends out a warmth that people can feel. And when someone senses that warmth and sincerity, they tend to open up too. Our connection gets stronger.
A big part of connecting is also listening and imagining what life is like for the other person. I've found that when I see the world through someone else's eyes, even just a little, it changes me. It makes me more compassionate. It teaches me how to say things in a way they will understand and feel. Each time I manage to truly step into someone else's shoes, I think I become a better communicator too. And funny enough, understanding others deeply also helps me understand myself.
I also think about how words shape our inner worlds. Look at the Communications Toolbox to see how true that is...
One of the most beautiful things I've discovered is the impact of simple acts of love in communication. Forgiving peopleand allowing love back in has been so powerful. When I let love and compassion guide me instead of fear, I find my voice comes out kinder and clearer. It's like love turns the light on in a dark room. The shadows start to fade, and honest communication can finally happen.
So here I am, still learning every day how to use my words — and my silence — to really connect. It amazes me that something as simple as language, just words and sounds, can carry such magic. When we infuse our words with truth and heart, they become more than just information. They become a way to touch someone's soul. What it comes down to for me is this: every conversation is a chance for one heart to reach out to another. It's one of the most human things we do. And to me, that's nothing short of miraculous.
Whats Coming Up NEXT!!
Dressing for Power and Elegance – A Guide to Intention and
Authenticity
Placement: Authenticity & Personal Branding Slides Content:
How style influences success – The psychology of first impressions
Building a capsule wardrobe for professional and personal confidence
The power of color psychology in dressing for intention
Dressing for different roles (leadership, creativity, networking)
Practical style tips for authenticity and elegance
Recommended visuals:
Color-coded outfit guides (e.g., red for power, blue for trust)
Side-by-side images of empowered vs. insecure dressing
A self-expression style quiz
Language is our tool for integration as a community. It helps us to remain clearly connected with
others.. It helps us identify feelings, and empowers us to respond to other people effectively, and
constructively. So we need to understand "meanings" of words. They assists us to think through
processes properly and reach conclusions..
The next part of the book is a visual reinforcement of the tools in language that we have at our
disposal to do just that..
The following word groups identify our sentiments and experiences. This resource helps us to
recognize the value of understanding such available tools so we can be empowered and grateful in
Self-worth, often referred to as self-esteem, is a fundamental aspect of mental health, influencing how individuals perceive themselves and interact with the world around them. It encompasses beliefs about one's value and abilities, serving as a foundation for emotional well-being and resilience.
The Connection Between Self-Worth and Mental Health
Emotional Well-Being: High self-worth is associated with positive emotions such as happiness and contentment. Individuals who value themselves tend to experience less anxiety and depression, as they are more likely to engage in self-compassionate thoughts and behaviors.
Instead of all talking at the same time to get your message across, be polite and let the other finish speaking, If you and another start speaking at the same time, say "Pardon me, Oh do you want to finish talking.. Oh no, you go ahead. Everything happens in a syncronized peaceful harmonious dignified fashion. That is the thing with the modern day. People are rushing to get their sentence in. They are also not honouring each other in the natural way. People are not remembering how much better life was for everyone when people intend to interact with all of the higher skills and qualities that we have. Practicing communication etiquette fixes that.
Individuals who value themselves tend to experience less anxiety and depression, as they are more likely to engage in self-compassionate thoughts and behaviors.
Look at the social media influencers who show grace, politeness and respect for those that they interview ie Jenifer Anist.Jay Shetty, Lewis Howes, they follow the social culture of etiquette and politeness and millions of people watch them because it is a comfortab;le experience. To be a leader and a boss you have gracious dealings to keep the respect of those around you. The best way to feel happy is to be able to be yourself, fully equipt and confident in every situation. This happens when we feel sure and safe of our position. Invest time now analysing how you will act, and decide upon the values you carry, and the type of social contributions you want to invest in. Start to picture yourself and prepare for the most successful you.
The tools we have at our disposal;
communication Toolkit, values,
morals, social cohesion, friendships, love.
We also have language and a variety of words
Journal about a new attitude of gratitude
Outcomes of low confidence are when
our fear makes us have an inability to express thoughts.,
Words are difficult because of a lack of skills in Communication,
Social mistreatment,
Fear of how others will respond to name a few.
Which order do these happen for you? Write them in your journal. Have you other reasons? Record in your gratitude workbook.
So its a good thing to be able to lessen the amount of things that affect us, and one way to do that is to learn about them because having knowledge about something, gives you perspective on how to deal with it. Knowledge is power.
Speak like a boss when you have the inner strength trialed and tested so many times, that it becomes an extension of who you really are. Practice makes perfect! Practice self expression using meaning in conversations. Expression gives you comfort. So how do women become leaders? Women leaders are strong women, who have forged ahead, and practiced and practiced till they felt very equipt and sure of what they are doing and saying.
MORE WAYS THINGS CAN BECOME BETTER
Reframe your thoughts when you see yourself slipping in your thinking - go to a positive
Balancing giving with receiving with others so they dont get carried away on an ego trip, lording it over you.
Meditate
Remember "Time" makes things heal so thnk ahead of time, make
plans and strategies long term
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MANIFESTING THE BEST YOU AS A COMMUNICATOR
Communicating with Love
Effective communication is the cornerstone of any successful intimate relationship. It shapes how partners understand and connect with one another, and it plays a crucial role in fostering trust, intimacy, and respect. In this lesson, we'll explore the importance of positive and effective communication, as well as how to apply these skills to deepen your connection with your partner. 1. The Power of Positive Communication In any relationship, words are powerful. What we say, how we say it, and when we say it can influence how our partner feels, how we connect, and the direction the relationship takes. Positive communication is about conveying respect, understanding, and care, even when discussing difficult or sensitive topics.
Key Elements of Positive Communication: Kindness and Compassion: Always communicate with empathy, especially in challenging moments. Instead of reacting emotionally, try to understand your partner's perspective.
Active Listening: Truly listen without interrupting or forming a response while your partner is speaking. Show you value their thoughts and feelings by offering thoughtful, non-judgmental feedback.
Non-Verbal Cues: Communication isn’t just verbal. Body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, and physical touch all play significant roles in how we express ourselves and how others perceive us.
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1. Why is Effective Communication Important in Intimate Relationships?
Question for the group: Why do you think communication is often referred to as the "foundation" of relationships?
Answer: Effective communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship because it helps build trust, intimacy, and respect. When you communicate clearly and lovingly, you’re more likely to understand each other’s needs, resolve conflicts constructively, and keep the emotional connection strong.
Discussion Prompt: Can you think of a time when poor communication affected your relationship? How did it make you feel?
Answer: Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, feelings of frustration, and emotional distance. For example, not expressing needs or feelings clearly can make partners feel neglected or unheard.
2. Active Listening: Why It's More Than Just Hearing
Question for the group: What does "active listening" mean to you, and why do you think it’s important in a relationship?
Answer: Active listening is more than just hearing words; it’s about truly paying attention, understanding, and responding thoughtfully. It requires engagement, not just passively hearing what the other person says. It’s about making the other person feel heard and valued.
Example: Imagine your partner shares something stressful that happened at work. Instead of immediately offering solutions or shifting the focus to your own experiences, active listening means you listen fully, acknowledge their feelings, and ask follow-up questions to better understand their emotions.
Example Question: How does it feel when someone listens to you actively versus when they just nod along and seem distracted?
Answer: When someone listens actively, it makes you feel supported, understood, and respected. When someone is distracted or dismissive, it can lead to feelings of loneliness or frustration.
3. The Power of "I" Statements vs. "You" Statements
Question for the group: Think about a disagreement you’ve had. How do you think using “I” statements might have changed the outcome?
Answer: "I" statements focus on expressing your feelings without blaming or accusing your partner. For example, instead of saying, “You never listen to me!” try saying, “I feel unheard when you don’t respond to what I say.” This reduces defensiveness and invites understanding.
Activity: Ask participants to rewrite a common disagreement using "I" statements:
Example: “You always leave your things around the house” becomes “I feel frustrated when the house is messy because I value organization.”
Follow-up question: How did changing from "You" to "I" affect the tone and emotional charge of the statement?
4. Communicating During Conflict: Staying Calm and Respectful
Question for the group: What’s your first instinct when you’re upset in a conversation? Do you tend to withdraw, raise your voice, or something else?
Answer: Many people either withdraw to avoid conflict or raise their voices when they're frustrated. Both can be damaging to communication. Instead, taking a pause and staying calm can lead to a more productive conversation.
Example: You and your partner are arguing about household responsibilities. Your instinct might be to raise your voice or shut down. What would happen if you took a 10-minute break instead and returned to the conversation with a clear mind?
Answer: Taking a break can help you cool down and come back to the discussion with a more level-headed approach, making it easier to listen and find a solution together.
Activity: Teach them a simple technique like "pause and breathe". When emotions are high, take three deep breaths before speaking. This helps prevent escalation and creates space for calm and respectful dialogue.
5. The Role of Appreciation in Communication
Question for the group: How does it make you feel when your partner expresses appreciation for something you’ve done?
Answer: Appreciation makes you feel seen, valued, and loved. It strengthens your emotional bond and makes both partners feel more positive about the relationship.
Example: Imagine your partner cooks dinner. Instead of just saying, “Thanks for making dinner,” try saying, “I really appreciate that you took the time to cook for us, and it was delicious.” This reinforces the positive gesture and makes your partner feel truly acknowledged.
Activity: Encourage participants to list three things they appreciate about their partner and share them. These can be big or small — anything that makes their partner feel special and valued.
6. The Importance of Boundaries in Communication
Question for the group: What do healthy boundaries look like in your relationship? How can communication play a role in setting and respecting those boundaries?
Answer: Healthy boundaries allow both partners to feel safe, respected, and understood. Communicating those boundaries clearly is crucial to maintaining respect and balance in the relationship. For example, if one partner needs time alone to recharge, it’s important to communicate that need kindly and assertively.
Example: You need time to yourself after a stressful week, but your partner wants to spend the weekend together. How would you communicate your need for space in a loving and respectful way?
Answer: “I love spending time with you, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and need some time alone to recharge this weekend. Can we plan something for next week instead?”
7. Conflict Resolution: Seeking Solutions Together
Question for the group: How can you approach a disagreement in a way that turns it into a chance to grow together as a couple?
Answer: Instead of viewing conflict as a battle to win, approach it as a team effort to find a solution that works for both of you. For example, if one person is upset about how chores are divided, the solution
Lesson: Communicating with Love
Lesson: Communicating with Love
1. Why is Effective Communication Important in Intimate Relationships?
Question for the group: Why do you think communication is often referred to as the "foundation" of relationships?
Answer: Effective communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship because it helps build trust, intimacy, and respect. When you communicate clearly and lovingly, you’re more likely to understand each other’s needs, resolve conflicts constructively, and keep the emotional connection strong.
Discussion Prompt: Can you think of a time when poor communication affected your relationship? How did it make you feel?
Answer: Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, feelings of frustration, and emotional distance. For example, not expressing needs or feelings clearly can make partners feel neglected or unheard.
2. Active Listening: Why It's More Than Just Hearing
Question for the group: What does "active listening" mean to you, and why do you think it’s important in a relationship?
Answer: Active listening is more than just hearing words; it’s about truly paying attention, understanding, and responding thoughtfully. It requires engagement, not just passively hearing what the other person says. It’s about making the other person feel heard and valued.
Example: Imagine your partner shares something stressful that happened at work. Instead of immediately offering solutions or shifting the focus to your own experiences, active listening means you listen fully, acknowledge their feelings, and ask follow-up questions to better understand their emotions.
Example Question: How does it feel when someone listens to you actively versus when they just nod along and seem distracted?
Answer: When someone listens actively, it makes you feel supported, understood, and respected. When someone is distracted or dismissive, it can lead to feelings of loneliness or frustration.
3. The Power of "I" Statements vs. "You" Statements
Question for the group: Think about a disagreement you’ve had. How do you think using “I” statements might have changed the outcome?
Answer: "I" statements focus on expressing your feelings without blaming or accusing your partner. For example, instead of saying, “You never listen to me!” try saying, “I feel unheard when you don’t respond to what I say.” This reduces defensiveness and invites understanding.
Activity: Ask participants to rewrite a common disagreement using "I" statements:
Example: “You always leave your things around the house” becomes “I feel frustrated when the house is messy because I value organization.”
Follow-up question: How did changing from "You" to "I" affect the tone and emotional charge of the statement?
4. Communicating During Conflict: Staying Calm and Respectful
Question for the group: What’s your first instinct when you’re upset in a conversation? Do you tend to withdraw, raise your voice, or something else?
Answer: Many people either withdraw to avoid conflict or raise their voices when they're frustrated. Both can be damaging to communication. Instead, taking a pause and staying calm can lead to a more productive conversation.
Example: You and your partner are arguing about household responsibilities. Your instinct might be to raise your voice or shut down. What would happen if you took a 10-minute break instead and returned to the conversation with a clear mind?
Answer: Taking a break can help you cool down and come back to the discussion with a more level-headed approach, making it easier to listen and find a solution together.
Activity: Teach them a simple technique like "pause and breathe". When emotions are high, take three deep breaths before speaking. This helps prevent escalation and creates space for calm and respectful dialogue.
5. The Role of Appreciation in Communication
Question for the group: How does it make you feel when your partner expresses appreciation for something you’ve done?
Answer: Appreciation makes you feel seen, valued, and loved. It strengthens your emotional bond and makes both partners feel more positive about the relationship.
Example: Imagine your partner cooks dinner. Instead of just saying, “Thanks for making dinner,” try saying, “I really appreciate that you took the time to cook for us, and it was delicious.” This reinforces the positive gesture and makes your partner feel truly acknowledged.
Activity: Encourage participants to list three things they appreciate about their partner and share them. These can be big or small — anything that makes their partner feel special and valued.
6. The Importance of Boundaries in Communication
Question for the group: What do healthy boundaries look like in your relationship? How can communication play a role in setting and respecting those boundaries?
Answer: Healthy boundaries allow both partners to feel safe, respected, and understood. Communicating those boundaries clearly is crucial to maintaining respect and balance in the relationship. For example, if one partner needs time alone to recharge, it’s important to communicate that need kindly and assertively.
Example: You need time to yourself after a stressful week, but your partner wants to spend the weekend together. How would you communicate your need for space in a loving and respectful way?
Answer: “I love spending time with you, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and need some time alone to recharge this weekend. Can we plan something for next week instead?”
6. The Importance of Boundaries in Communication
Question for the group: What do healthy boundaries look like in your relationship? How can communication play a role in setting and respecting those boundaries?
Answer: Healthy boundaries allow both partners to feel safe, respected, and understood. Communicating those boundaries clearly is crucial to maintaining respect and balance in the relationship. For example, if one partner needs time alone to recharge, it’s important to communicate that need kindly and assertively.
Example: You need time to yourself after a stressful week, but your partner wants to spend the weekend together. How would you communicate your need for space in a loving and respectful way?
Answer: “I love spending time with you, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and need some time alone to recharge this weekend. Can we plan something for next week instead?”
7. Conflict Resolution: Seeking Solutions Together
Question for the group: How can you approach a disagreement in a way that turns it into a chance to grow together as a couple?
Answer: Instead of viewing conflict as a battle to win, approach it as a team effort to find a solution that works for both of you. For example, if one person is upset about how chores are divided, the solution might involve discussing expectations and creating a plan that works for both.
Activity: Role-play a common conflict scenario with a partner (or in pairs). One person can play the role of the person who needs something addressed (e.g., more quality time together), and the other plays the listener. Afterward, discuss how each felt and the communication techniques used.
8. Final Thoughts: Practicing Love in Communication
Question for the group: What is one communication habit you’d like to improve in your relationship? How will you practice this change starting today?
Answer: For example, someone might say, “I want to practice active listening more” or “I want to express appreciation every day.” Encourage participants to make a commitment to improving their communication and to revisit it regularly in their relationship.
Closing Exercise:
Closing Exercise:
Reflection and Action Plan
Instructions: Have each participant write down one key takeaway from the lesson on communicating with love and how they will apply it in their relationship. This could be anything from using “I” statements more often to scheduling regular check-ins to ensure that both partners’ needs are being met.
Question: What’s one way you can communicate with love today to improve your relationship?
These discussion questions, real-world examples, and activities will allow the participants to deeply engage with the material, reflect on their own communication patterns, and practice applying the principles of loving communication in their relationships. The goal is to leave them with tangible, actionable tools they can start using right away to enhance the quality of their relationships.
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Spiritually lock yourself into meditation. Develop your intuition. Read about believing in yourself. coming from this beautiful thought space. You can express. speak with intention about good things and switch off the cynicism. Go into a good headspace. feel at peace with nature. Think about how your environment makes you feel. Switch it up and make it accomodate your needs!.
oon after, buy that cushion, listen to Youtube videos on motivation and journal. Listen to spiritual music. Reflect on all of THE THINGS IMPORTANT TO YOU. Get rid of old clothes, rearrange your living space, new colors , discard old things that have old memories that dont serve you well anymore. Do that with everything until your environment makes you feel good.
Recognise you are receptive to the environment so make it accomodate your higher needss. Upliftment, peace, love vibes. What you need to feel good.
Build this support structure so you meditate positively and draw good.
MANIFESTATION: Confidence and Self Worth
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