WELCOME GIRLS TO THIS "YOUNG WOMENS SUCCESS MASTERCLASS on

 VALUES AND DECISION MAKING

The tools we have at our disposal;

communication Toolkit, values,

morals, social cohesion, friendships, love.

We also have language and a variety of words 

Journal about a new attitude of gratitude

Outcomes of low confidence are when

our fear makes us  have an inability to express thoughts., 

Words are difficult because of  a  lack of skills in Communication, 

Social mistreatment, 

Fear of how others will respond to name a few. 

Which order do these happen for you? Write them in your journal.               

Have you other reasons? Record in your gratitude workbook.

So its a good thing to be able to lessen the amount of things that affect us, and one way to do that is to learn about them because having knowledge about something, gives you perspective on how to deal with it. Knowledge is power. 

Speak like a boss when you have the inner strength trialed and tested so many times, that it becomes an extension of who you really are. Practice makes perfect! Practice self expression using meaning in conversations. Expression gives you comfort. So how do women become leaders? Women leaders are strong women, who have forged ahead, and practiced and practiced till they felt very equipt and sure of what they are doing and saying.

Reframe your thoughts when you see yourself slipping in your thinking - go to a positive  

Balancing giving with receiving with others so they dont get carried away on an ego trip, lording it over you.

     Meditate

     Remember "Time" makes things heal so thnk ahead of time, make   

      plans and    strategies long term 

     Have fun, listen to good music for one hours straight and dance to     

      your favorite songs every day..

     Allow yourself to "Let go, let love" and uplift your spirit 

     Listen to beautiful sound vibrations and learn about the impact of  

     aim for a state of peace and tranquillity.

 Self-compassion can alleviate negative self-image. 

Self compassion practices and themes to be conscious of when healing

So if you feel someone else is not showing gratitude for your actions and you are letting that get you down. Dont. Ultimately you are in charge of how you feel. 

You can fix your day speaking in that you are a very strong and confident person who is authentic and have responses according to how they make you feel. Not the other way around. Listen to Joe Dispenza morning routine.

To take the message even further and make it more impactful for a masterclass, we could focus on both the mental and emotional aspects of self-esteem and personal growth. Here's how I’d build on your existing ideas and deepen the conversation:

1. Understanding the Root of Societal Pressure:

Dive deeper into the psychology behind why society places such heavy emphasis on appearance. Discuss the historical and cultural factors that have led to this obsession, and how media, advertising, and even family or peer influences have shaped our perceptions of "beauty." This adds context to why women feel so much pressure, helping them understand that this pressure is not a reflection of their worth — it's a societal construct.

2. The Power of Comparison:

Social media is a breeding ground for comparison. Highlight how this can lead to a distorted sense of reality, as we often compare our behind-the-scenes to others' highlight reels. Reinforce that no one posts their "bad days" or their personal struggles — what we see online is curated. By recognizing this, we can develop a healthier relationship with social media, shifting our focus from comparison to inspiration.

3. Self-Awareness and Self-Love:

I’d go deeper into practical tools for cultivating self-awareness and self-love. This could include:

• Journaling prompts for reflection, helping women identify and appreciate their unique qualities.

• Exercises on practicing gratitude for one's body, personality, and mind, instead of focusing solely on outward appearance.

• Mindfulness or meditation practices to ground oneself in the present moment, fostering acceptance and self-compassion.

1. The Role of Vulnerability and Authenticity

In your teenage and early adult years, you’re often figuring out who you are, and there’s a lot of pressure to put up a "perfect" front — especially on social media. Whether it’s your friends, influencers, or people around you, there's an overwhelming sense that everyone has it all together, and maybe you’re the only one who doesn’t. But here’s the thing: being real is actually what makes you strong.

Vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s bravery. When you allow yourself to be seen as you truly are, you invite others to do the same. This is where true connection happens. Instead of trying to be the "perfect" version of yourself, let people see the real you — your quirks, struggles, and triumphs. Embrace your authenticity, because that’s where your power lies. It's through being vulnerable that you allow your uniqueness to shine and attract people who resonate with the real you.

Example: Think about the friends you feel closest to — they’re the ones who’ve shared their real, raw selves with you, right? That’s what builds trust and deeper relationships. Your authenticity is a superpower.

2. Celebrating Progress Over Perfection

We live in a world where perfectionism is glamorized, especially on social media, where everyone’s highlight reels are shared. It’s easy to feel like you're not measuring up when you see others doing things perfectly. But let me tell you something — progress is so much more important than perfection.

You don’t need to have everything figured out or look a certain way to feel accomplished. Focus on the growth you’ve already made. Maybe you didn’t get the grade you wanted, but you improved your study habits. Maybe you’re still figuring out your career path, but you’re learning and growing each day. Celebrate those small wins! Every step forward is a victory.

Tip: Instead of thinking about everything you haven't done, take a moment to reflect on where you’ve come from and how much you’ve grown. Even showing up every day is something to be proud of.

3. Community and Support

It’s easy to feel alone when the world seems to judge you based on your appearance, achievements, or the number of followers you have. But remember, you don’t have to go through this alone. One of the most powerful ways to build your self-esteem is by connecting with women who support and uplift each other.

Surround yourself with people who challenge the societal norms around beauty, success, and worth. Community is about empowering one another, and it’s essential to find spaces where you feel safe, understood, and encouraged to grow. When women come together, we create a space of strength and support that propels us forward.

Tip: Build a circle of friends or a mentor who encourage you to be your authentic self, not the version society says you should be.

4. The Importance of Mentorship and Role Models

The women you look up to — whether they are family, teachers, or public figures — can play a significant role in shaping how you see yourself. Mentorship is key to personal growth. A great mentor is someone who believes in you, offers wisdom, and helps you navigate challenges.

You don’t need to find a "perfect" role model — you just need someone who inspires you and embodies qualities you admire, whether it's resilience, kindness, or intelligence. Also, become a role model yourself. Mentor younger women or peers, and watch how it enhances your sense of purpose and confidence.

Tip: Reach out to someone who inspires you. Mentorship doesn’t always come from famous people — it could be someone in your community or your family.

5. Creating an Action Plan for Healthy Social Media Use

Social media is a double-edged sword. It can connect us, but it can also make us feel like we don’t measure up. Healthy social media use is about setting boundaries and curating your feed with content that empowers you.

• Unfollow accounts that make you feel bad about yourself or create feelings of comparison.

• Follow accounts that promote body positivity, diverse beauty, mental health, and empowerment.

• Limit your screen time to avoid getting lost in the endless scroll of comparison.

Remember: What you see online is often not the full picture. Take a step back and realize that what’s shared on social media is just one part of someone’s life — it doesn’t define their worth, and it shouldn’t define yours.

Tip: Try a "social media detox" for a few days and see how it impacts your mood and self-esteem.

6. Embracing Imperfections

Here’s the truth: imperfections are what make us human. Whether it’s a scar, stretch marks, or a flaw you think holds you back, those things are part of your story. Each imperfection tells a tale of growth, change, and resilience.

Instead of seeing imperfections as something to hide, start viewing them as symbols of your strength. Your uniqueness is what makes you extraordinary, and no one else in the world is exactly like you.

Tip: Celebrate your flaws and use them as a reminder that you are perfectly imperfect.

Final Message: A Shift in Mindset

By the end of this masterclass, I want you to understand that your true worth is not defined by the way you look, the grades you get, or how many followers you have. You are enough, just as you are. Embrace your unique qualities, and stop comparing yourself to the “perfect” images you see online or in the media.

The journey to self-esteem isn’t about achieving perfection; it’s about embracing progress, celebrating your authenticity, and building a strong network of support. By fostering a mindset of growth and love, you can step into your power, realize your potential, and recognize that your uniqueness is not just enough — it’s extraordinary.

This approach keeps it relevant for young women, combining actionable steps with an empowering message of self-acceptance. By the end, they should feel motivated to not only embrace their uniqueness but also build communities of support and mentorship around them. What do you think? Would you like to adjust or add anything else?

Dressing for Elegance & Influence:

🌟 Self-Reflection & Identity

1️⃣ How do you feel when you wear an outfit that truly represents who you are?
2️⃣ If someone met you for the first time based on your style, what do you think they would assume about you?
3️⃣ What message do you want your personal style to send to the world?
4️⃣ Who are your biggest style inspirations, and why?
5️⃣ If you had to describe your ideal personal style in three words, what would they be?

💼 Dressing for Confidence & Success

6️⃣ Have you ever worn something that made you feel instantly more powerful? What was it?
7️⃣ Do you think dressing elegantly can impact how you are treated by others? Why or why not?
8️⃣ How do you balance being comfortable while still looking polished and put together?
9️⃣ What are some struggles you face when choosing what to wear for important occasions (job interviews, presentations, networking events)?
🔟 What are the biggest misconceptions about elegance and power dressing?

👗 Style & Practicality

1️⃣1️⃣ Do you think elegance requires expensive clothing, or can it be achieved on a budget?
1️⃣2️⃣ How do you choose pieces that make you feel confident and sophisticated, rather than just following trends?
1️⃣3️⃣ What are your go-to power pieces when you want to make a strong impression?
1️⃣4️⃣ What challenges do you face when shopping for clothes that fit your body type, budget, and lifestyle?
1️⃣5️⃣ What’s one item in your wardrobe that makes you feel unstoppable?

✨ Grooming, Presence & Poise

1️⃣6️⃣ How do hair, makeup, and posture contribute to an elegant look?
1️⃣7️⃣ How can someone cultivate a polished appearance without feeling “too dressed up” for everyday life?
1️⃣8️⃣ How does self-care (like skincare, grooming, and good hygiene) influence elegance?
1️⃣9️⃣ How do you think social media has affected the way young women approach fashion and elegance?
2️⃣0️⃣ What’s one small habit you can start today to refine your personal style and confidence?

💎 Personal Branding & The Power of First Impressions

2️⃣1️⃣ How important is first impression in success, and how does your style play a role in that?
2️⃣2️⃣ Have you ever judged someone based on their appearance? How does that make you think about your own style choices?
2️⃣3️⃣ If you had unlimited resources, how would you build your dream wardrobe?
2️⃣4️⃣ What does “dressing for the life you want” mean to you?
2️⃣5️⃣ What’s one key takeaway from today’s discussion that will change the way you think about your wardrobe?

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      Section 1: Self-Image & Self-Talk Prompts: 

How do I feel about my body today, and why? 

What are three things I appreciate about my body? 

        What negative thoughts do I have about my appearance, and how can I  

          reframe them positively? 

Write a kind and appreciative letter to your body. 

What would I say to a friend who struggles with body image? 

      Section 2: Media Influence & Comparison Prompts: 

       What types of images do I see in media that make me feel insecure? 

How do these images affect my self-esteem? 

       What is one way I can curate my social media feed to be more body 

positive? 

Find and describe a public figure who promotes body positivity. 

       Write about a time when I felt pressured to look a certain way. How did  

         it affect me? 

      Section 3: Personal Strengths & Confidence Prompts:

     What are 3 things I love about me that have nothing to do with    appearance?          

When do I feel the most confident? 

What activities make me feel strong and capable? 

Write a mantra or affirmation to repeat when I feel self-doubt. 

Describe a moment when I felt proud of myself and why.● 

     Section 4: Daily or Weekly Check-Ins Prompts: 

 How did I practice self-love today/this week? 

        What challenges did I face regarding body image, and how did I handle  them? 

       What’s one step I can take to improve my relationship with my body? 

What emotions did I experience this week related to body image? 

What’s something positive I learned about myself recently? ● 

      Section 5: Celebrating Progress Prompts: 

Reflect on a time when I felt beautiful, strong, or confident. 

Write a thank-you note to myself for how far I’ve come. 

How has my self-image changed over time? 

What advice would I give my younger self about body confidence? 

     What is one commitment I can make to continue my body positivity  journey? 

Conclusion 

Congratulations on taking this journey toward self-love and confidence! Remember, body positivity is not about perfection—it’s about self-acceptance,  growth, and kindness toward yourself. Keep celebrating who you are, and revisit  this journal whenever you need encouragement. 

You are enough. You are worthy. You are beautiful.

Communicating with Love 

Effective communication is the cornerstone of any successful intimate relationship. It shapes how partners understand and connect with one another, and it plays a crucial role in fostering trust, intimacy, and respect. In this lesson, we'll explore the importance of positive and effective communication, as well as how to apply these skills to deepen your connection with your partner.  1. The Power of Positive Communication In any relationship, words are powerful. What we say, how we say it, and when we say it can influence how our partner feels, how we connect, and the direction the relationship takes. Positive communication is about conveying respect, understanding, and care, even when discussing difficult or sensitive topics.  

Key Elements of Positive Communication:  Kindness and Compassion: Always communicate with empathy, especially in challenging moments. Instead of reacting emotionally, try to understand your partner's perspective. 

Active Listening: Truly listen without interrupting or forming a response while your partner is speaking. Show you value their thoughts and feelings by offering thoughtful, non-judgmental feedback. 

Non-Verbal Cues: Communication isn’t just verbal. Body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, and physical touch all play significant roles in how we express ourselves and how others perceive us.

Unselfish acts shows "caring" to your loved one..

How can you show love?

1. Why is Effective Communication Important in Intimate Relationships?

• Question for the group: Why do you think communication is often referred to as the "foundation" of relationships?
  
  

  • Answer: Effective communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship because it helps build trust, intimacy, and respect. When you communicate clearly and lovingly, you’re more likely to understand each other’s needs, resolve conflicts constructively, and keep the emotional connection strong.

• Discussion Prompt: Can you think of a time when poor communication affected your relationship? How did it make you feel?
  
  

  • Answer: Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, feelings of frustration, and emotional distance. For example, not expressing needs or feelings clearly can make partners feel neglected or unheard.

2. Active Listening: Why It's More Than Just Hearing

• Question for the group: What does "active listening" mean to you, and why do you think it’s important in a relationship?
  
  

  • Answer: Active listening is more than just hearing words; it’s about truly paying attention, understanding, and responding thoughtfully. It requires engagement, not just passively hearing what the other person says. It’s about making the other person feel heard and valued.

• Example: Imagine your partner shares something stressful that happened at work. Instead of immediately offering solutions or shifting the focus to your own experiences, active listening means you listen fully, acknowledge their feelings, and ask follow-up questions to better understand their emotions.
  
  

  • Example Question: How does it feel when someone listens to you actively versus when they just nod along and seem distracted?

• Answer: When someone listens actively, it makes you feel supported, understood, and respected. When someone is distracted or dismissive, it can lead to feelings of loneliness or frustration.
  
  

3. The Power of "I" Statements vs. "You" Statements

• Question for the group: Think about a disagreement you’ve had. How do you think using “I” statements might have changed the outcome?
  
  

  • Answer: "I" statements focus on expressing your feelings without blaming or accusing your partner. For example, instead of saying, “You never listen to me!” try saying, “I feel unheard when you don’t respond to what I say.” This reduces defensiveness and invites understanding.

• Activity: Ask participants to rewrite a common disagreement using "I" statements:
  
  

  • Example: “You always leave your things around the house” becomes “I feel frustrated when the house is messy because I value organization.”
    
    

  • Follow-up question: How did changing from "You" to "I" affect the tone and emotional charge of the statement?
    
    

4. Communicating During Conflict: Staying Calm and Respectful

• Question for the group: What’s your first instinct when you’re upset in a conversation? Do you tend to withdraw, raise your voice, or something else?
  
  

  • Answer: Many people either withdraw to avoid conflict or raise their voices when they're frustrated. Both can be damaging to communication. Instead, taking a pause and staying calm can lead to a more productive conversation.

• Example: You and your partner are arguing about household responsibilities. Your instinct might be to raise your voice or shut down. What would happen if you took a 10-minute break instead and returned to the conversation with a clear mind?
  
  

  • Answer: Taking a break can help you cool down and come back to the discussion with a more level-headed approach, making it easier to listen and find a solution together.

• Activity: Teach them a simple technique like "pause and breathe". When emotions are high, take three deep breaths before speaking. This helps prevent escalation and creates space for calm and respectful dialogue.
  
  

5. The Role of Appreciation in Communication

• Question for the group: How does it make you feel when your partner expresses appreciation for something you’ve done?
  
  

  • Answer: Appreciation makes you feel seen, valued, and loved. It strengthens your emotional bond and makes both partners feel more positive about the relationship.

• Example: Imagine your partner cooks dinner. Instead of just saying, “Thanks for making dinner,” try saying, “I really appreciate that you took the time to cook for us, and it was delicious.” This reinforces the positive gesture and makes your partner feel truly acknowledged.
  
  

• Activity: Encourage participants to list three things they appreciate about their partner and share them. These can be big or small — anything that makes their partner feel special and valued.
  
  

6. The Importance of Boundaries in Communication

• Question for the group: What do healthy boundaries look like in your relationship? How can communication play a role in setting and respecting those boundaries?
  
  

  • Answer: Healthy boundaries allow both partners to feel safe, respected, and understood. Communicating those boundaries clearly is crucial to maintaining respect and balance in the relationship. For example, if one partner needs time alone to recharge, it’s important to communicate that need kindly and assertively.

• Example: You need time to yourself after a stressful week, but your partner wants to spend the weekend together. How would you communicate your need for space in a loving and respectful way?
  
  

  • Answer: “I love spending time with you, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and need some time alone to recharge this weekend. Can we plan something for next week instead?”

7. Conflict Resolution: Seeking Solutions Together

• Question for the group: How can you approach a disagreement in a way that turns it into a chance to grow together as a couple?

  • Answer: Instead of viewing conflict as a battle to win, approach it as a team effort to find a solution that works for both of you. For example, if one person is upset about how chores are divided, the solution

Lesson: Communicating with Love

1. Why is Effective Communication Important in Intimate Relationships?

• Question for the group: Why do you think communication is often referred to as the "foundation" of relationships?
  
  

  • Answer: Effective communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship because it helps build trust, intimacy, and respect. When you communicate clearly and lovingly, you’re more likely to understand each other’s needs, resolve conflicts constructively, and keep the emotional connection strong.

• Discussion Prompt: Can you think of a time when poor communication affected your relationship? How did it make you feel?
  
  

  • Answer: Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, feelings of frustration, and emotional distance. For example, not expressing needs or feelings clearly can make partners feel neglected or unheard.

2. Active Listening: Why It's More Than Just Hearing

• Question for the group: What does "active listening" mean to you, and why do you think it’s important in a relationship?
  
  

  • Answer: Active listening is more than just hearing words; it’s about truly paying attention, understanding, and responding thoughtfully. It requires engagement, not just passively hearing what the other person says. It’s about making the other person feel heard and valued.

• Example: Imagine your partner shares something stressful that happened at work. Instead of immediately offering solutions or shifting the focus to your own experiences, active listening means you listen fully, acknowledge their feelings, and ask follow-up questions to better understand their emotions.
  
  

  • Example Question: How does it feel when someone listens to you actively versus when they just nod along and seem distracted?

• Answer: When someone listens actively, it makes you feel supported, understood, and respected. When someone is distracted or dismissive, it can lead to feelings of loneliness or frustration.
  
  

3. The Power of "I" Statements vs. "You" Statements

• Question for the group: Think about a disagreement you’ve had. How do you think using “I” statements might have changed the outcome?
  
  

  • Answer: "I" statements focus on expressing your feelings without blaming or accusing your partner. For example, instead of saying, “You never listen to me!” try saying, “I feel unheard when you don’t respond to what I say.” This reduces defensiveness and invites understanding.

• Activity: Ask participants to rewrite a common disagreement using "I" statements:
  
  

  • Example: “You always leave your things around the house” becomes “I feel frustrated when the house is messy because I value organization.”
    
    

  • Follow-up question: How did changing from "You" to "I" affect the tone and emotional charge of the statement?
    
    

4. Communicating During Conflict: Staying Calm and Respectful

• Question for the group: What’s your first instinct when you’re upset in a conversation? Do you tend to withdraw, raise your voice, or something else?
  
  

  • Answer: Many people either withdraw to avoid conflict or raise their voices when they're frustrated. Both can be damaging to communication. Instead, taking a pause and staying calm can lead to a more productive conversation.

• Example: You and your partner are arguing about household responsibilities. Your instinct might be to raise your voice or shut down. What would happen if you took a 10-minute break instead and returned to the conversation with a clear mind?
  
  

  • Answer: Taking a break can help you cool down and come back to the discussion with a more level-headed approach, making it easier to listen and find a solution together.

• Activity: Teach them a simple technique like "pause and breathe". When emotions are high, take three deep breaths before speaking. This helps prevent escalation and creates space for calm and respectful dialogue.
  
  

5. The Role of Appreciation in Communication

• Question for the group: How does it make you feel when your partner expresses appreciation for something you’ve done?
  
  

  • Answer: Appreciation makes you feel seen, valued, and loved. It strengthens your emotional bond and makes both partners feel more positive about the relationship.

• Example: Imagine your partner cooks dinner. Instead of just saying, “Thanks for making dinner,” try saying, “I really appreciate that you took the time to cook for us, and it was delicious.” This reinforces the positive gesture and makes your partner feel truly acknowledged.
  
  

• Activity: Encourage participants to list three things they appreciate about their partner and share them. These can be big or small — anything that makes their partner feel special and valued.
  
  

6. The Importance of Boundaries in Communication

• Question for the group: What do healthy boundaries look like in your relationship? How can communication play a role in setting and respecting those boundaries?
  
  

  • Answer: Healthy boundaries allow both partners to feel safe, respected, and understood. Communicating those boundaries clearly is crucial to maintaining respect and balance in the relationship. For example, if one partner needs time alone to recharge, it’s important to communicate that need kindly and assertively.

• Example: You need time to yourself after a stressful week, but your partner wants to spend the weekend together. How would you communicate your need for space in a loving and respectful way?
  
  

  • Answer: “I love spending time with you, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and need some time alone to recharge this weekend. Can we plan something for next week instead?”

6. The Importance of Boundaries in Communication

• Question for the group: What do healthy boundaries look like in your relationship? How can communication play a role in setting and respecting those boundaries?
  
  

  • Answer: Healthy boundaries allow both partners to feel safe, respected, and understood. Communicating those boundaries clearly is crucial to maintaining respect and balance in the relationship. For example, if one partner needs time alone to recharge, it’s important to communicate that need kindly and assertively.

• Example: You need time to yourself after a stressful week, but your partner wants to spend the weekend together. How would you communicate your need for space in a loving and respectful way?
  
  

  • Answer: “I love spending time with you, but I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed and need some time alone to recharge this weekend. Can we plan something for next week instead?”

7. Conflict Resolution: Seeking Solutions Together

• Question for the group: How can you approach a disagreement in a way that turns it into a chance to grow together as a couple?
  
  

  • Answer: Instead of viewing conflict as a battle to win, approach it as a team effort to find a solution that works for both of you. For example, if one person is upset about how chores are divided, the solution might involve discussing expectations and creating a plan that works for both.

• Activity: Role-play a common conflict scenario with a partner (or in pairs). One person can play the role of the person who needs something addressed (e.g., more quality time together), and the other plays the listener. Afterward, discuss how each felt and the communication techniques used.
  
  

8. Final Thoughts: Practicing Love in Communication

• Question for the group: What is one communication habit you’d like to improve in your relationship? How will you practice this change starting today?

  • Answer: For example, someone might say, “I want to practice active listening more” or “I want to express appreciation every day.” Encourage participants to make a commitment to improving their communication and to revisit it regularly in their relationship.

Closing Exercise:

Reflection and Action Plan

• Instructions: Have each participant write down one key takeaway from the lesson on communicating with love and how they will apply it in their relationship. This could be anything from using “I” statements more often to scheduling regular check-ins to ensure that both partners’ needs are being met.

• Question: What’s one way you can communicate with love today to improve your relationship?

These discussion questions, real-world examples, and activities will allow the participants to deeply engage with the material, reflect on their own communication patterns, and practice applying the principles of loving communication in their relationships. The goal is to leave them with tangible, actionable tools they can start using right away to enhance the quality of their relationships.

Below are common behaviors that people may exhibit when asserting themselves in ways that harm others

When people assert themselves in ways that negatively affect others, it often stems from a lack of awareness or an imbalance between standing up for oneself and considering the feelings and needs of others. Below are some common behaviors that people may exhibit when asserting themselves in ways that harm others, along with the potential negative impact of these actions:

1. Aggressive Communication

• What it looks like:

  • Speaking over others, using a harsh or confrontational tone, or belittling someone during a discussion.

  • Interrupting frequently, raising their voice to dominate the conversation, or using insults to get their point across.

• Impact on others:

  • This can create an environment where others feel disrespected, undervalued, or afraid to express their opinions.

  • It can lead to conflict, resentment, and a lack of trust in relationships, whether personal or professional.

• Example: A person might assert themselves in a meeting by dismissing everyone else’s ideas loudly, saying things like, “This is the only way it works, you’re all wrong,” which creates tension and discourages collaboration.

2. Disregarding Boundaries

• What it looks like:
  
  

  • Ignoring the personal or emotional boundaries of others in an attempt to assert one's own wants or needs.

  • Forcing people to do things they’re uncomfortable with or crossing personal space without permission.

• Impact on others:
  
  

  • People can feel violated, uncomfortable, or manipulated. This erodes trust and creates an unsafe or unhealthy environment.

  • Constantly crossing boundaries can lead to feelings of anxiety, resentment, or even withdrawal from the relationship.

• Example: A friend continuously makes plans for others without considering their availability or emotional state, saying things like, "You have to come with me, it'll be fun!" while ignoring the other person's need for rest.
  
  

3. Playing the Victim

• What it looks like:
  
  

  • Constantly asserting one's perspective in a way that focuses solely on one’s own hardship or struggle, without acknowledging the other person’s feelings or viewpoint.

  • Using guilt or manipulation to get others to comply with one’s desires by framing themselves as a victim of circumstances.

• Impact on others:
  
  

  • This can make others feel guilty, exhausted, or invalidated. They may feel like their own needs or experiences are disregarded in favor of the person’s self-pity or victim narrative.

  • It can lead to one-sided relationships where others feel responsible for the person’s emotions and actions, creating an unhealthy dynamic.

• Example: A colleague always demands sympathy and extra help, constantly saying things like, "Nobody understands how hard I have it. I need help with this because no one else is doing enough," which puts undue pressure on others.
  
  

4. Overgeneralizing or Blaming Others

• What it looks like:

  • Asserting that certain situations are always someone else’s fault or using sweeping statements like, "You never listen," or "You always let me down."

  • Not taking responsibility for one’s own actions or contributions to the situation, instead deflecting blame onto others.

• Impact on others:

  • People may feel accused or defensive, causing a breakdown in communication and collaboration.

  • This creates an environment where people avoid confrontation, hide their true feelings, or become passive-aggressive out of fear of being unfairly blamed.

• Example: A person might say, "I always have to do everything around here, and nobody ever helps me," without recognizing their own role in creating the imbalance, which causes others to feel blamed and alienated.

5. Constant Need for Control

• What it looks like:

  • Asserting dominance by trying to control every situation, making all decisions without consulting others, or disregarding others' preferences and input.

  • Micromanaging others or taking over situations, even when it’s not needed or wanted.

• Impact on others:

  • This can make others feel disempowered, frustrated, and unappreciated. It undermines the autonomy of others and creates a sense of resentment.

  • It can lead to a lack of teamwork, as people may feel like their contributions or ideas aren’t valued.

• Example: A manager might insist on doing everything their way, disregarding input from team members, which leaves others feeling unimportant and disconnected from the decision-making process.

6. Ignoring Emotional Needs

• What it looks like:
  
  

  • Asserting oneself without regard for the emotional needs of others, especially when someone is feeling vulnerable or needs empathy.

  • Dismissing or invalidating the feelings of others, especially during difficult or sensitive conversations.

• Impact on others:
  
  

  • This can lead to emotional distancing, as people feel unheard, unsupported, and uncared for. Relationships may become transactional rather than relational, and emotional needs go unmet.

  • Others may start to withdraw, feeling like their feelings don't matter or are being dismissed.

• Example: A person may be going through a tough time, and their partner responds with, "Well, I had a tough day too, and I don’t have time for this," instead of offering emotional support or empathy.
  
  

7. Dismissive or Condescending Behavior

• What it looks like:
  
  

  • Asserting authority or superiority in a way that belittles others, making them feel small, inferior, or incompetent.

  • Speaking down to people, making them feel unimportant or unintelligent, often by offering unsolicited advice or opinions in a condescending tone.

• Impact on others:
  
  

  • This creates an atmosphere of disrespect and can result in people feeling humiliated, embarrassed, or disrespected. It discourages healthy communication and stifles growth.

  • People might feel disengaged or stop speaking up because they fear being belittled or dismissed.

• Example: In a group setting, one person may constantly talk over others, saying things like, "You wouldn’t understand, but let me explain," which diminishes others' voices and feelings.
  
  

8. Refusing to Compromise

• What it looks like:
  
  

  • Asserting one’s opinions, desires, or beliefs with little to no room for flexibility or compromise.

  • Insisting on having things their way, even when it negatively impacts others or the group dynamic.

• Impact on others:
  
  

  • People may feel resentful and unheard, which can lead to frustration, arguments, and eventual disengagement from the relationship.

  • This lack of flexibility can stifle creativity and cooperation, as compromise is often needed to resolve differences and move forward in a balanced way.

• Example: In a friendship, one person insists on always choosing what activities to do without considering what the other person wants, leading to frustration and a sense of unfairness.
  
  

Conclusion:

Assertiveness is important for standing up for oneself, but it’s crucial to do so with empathy, respect, and consideration for others' perspectives. When assertiveness crosses into aggression, control, or disregard for others' feelings, it can have damaging consequences for relationships and interactions. Healthy communication, self-awareness, and the willingness to listen and compromise are key to ensuring that assertiveness doesn't negatively affect those around us.

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The Feminine: How Women Relate

Summary This video explores the concept of the Divine Feminine, emphasizing how women connect with themselves and others in a world that often challenges their sense of identity. It highlights the power of intuition, emotional intelligence, and relational strength, showing how women navigate relationships, self-worth, and personal empowerment. The discussion addresses societal expectations, inner wisdom, and the journey of self-discovery.

Key Themes:

• The essence of the Divine Feminine and its role in personal empowerment.

• How women nurture to help their child grow and they build relationships through empathy, communication, and intuition

• How women dont express that and keep it quiet as it is not relatable to many in the fqmily and it is even not spoken about much to build young womens self esteem..zno you re not born. .sexul being only but as well the nurturer, the helaers, the shakti as explaioned in vedic writings. The facilitator.

• The impact of societal conditioning on self-worth and confidence.

• Finding inner strength and trusting one’s instincts.

• Encouraging women to embrace their authentic selves rather than conforming to expectations.

How This Helps Women (14-24 age group):

• Encourages self-reflection on personal strengths and emotions.

• Helps young women understand the value of their intuition in decision-making.

• Provides insight into how relationships (friendships, family, and romantic) can be navigated in a healthy way.

• Builds confidence by redefining what success and self-worth mean beyond external validation.

Reflection Questions for Self-Esteem Building:

1. When do you feel most connected to your inner strength and intuition? How can you trust yourself more?

2. How do your relationships reflect your self-worth, and what changes could you make to cultivate healthier connections?

3. In what ways have societal expectations influenced how you see yourself, and how can you redefine your identity on your own terms?

4. What are three qualities you love about yourself, and how can you celebrate them more in daily life?

5. How can you embrace and express your unique feminine power without fear of judgment or rejection?

This summary serves as a reflective guide for young women exploring self-awareness and empowerment in their personal and social lives.

MODULE 9

Reviewing identifying personal leadership strengths

✔ Developing confidence in professional and personal leadership ✔

Finding and using your unique voice of influence

✔ Overcoming self-doubt and imposter syndrome

✔ Leading with integrity, empathy, and purpose

Activities

✔ Leadership self-assessment: Identifying strengths & growth

areas ✔ Public speaking and confidence-building exercises ✔

Networking and personal branding strategies

✔ Setting leadership goals and impact planning

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A Transformational Journey: The Women’s Success Masterclass Exclusive

This masterclass is designed to take young women on a structured yet deeply personal journey toward self-discovery, confidence, and success. Through a combination of storytelling, real-world examples, and interactive exercises, participants will develop an understanding of their own power, resilience, and feminine strengths.

Masterclass Structure: Writing challenge 

Choose one topic to write about in your journal:

Week 1: Understanding Your Unique Feminine Power

• Exploring the meaning of femininity and debunking societal myths.

• Identifying personal strengths and how they shape confidence.

• Interactive Activity: Personal storytelling—writing a letter to their younger selves about their unique power.

Week 2: Emotional Intelligence & Intuition as Strengths

• Understanding emotions as a superpower rather than a weakness.

• How to use intuition to make confident decisions in school, work, and relationships.

• Exercise: Guided visualization to help participants tap into their inner voice.

Week 3: Leadership & Assertiveness Without Losing Authenticity

• The balance between assertiveness and compassion.

• Leading in personal life, school, work, and beyond.

• Activity: Role-playing different scenarios (negotiating, public speaking, boundary-setting).

Week 4: Overcoming Societal Expectations & Defining Success on Your Terms

• Breaking free from external validation and people-pleasing.

• Defining personal goals and creating a vision board for success.

• Discussion: Sharing personal experiences and fears in a supportive community.

Week 5: Self-Care, Boundaries & Creating an Empowered Future

• The importance of self-care as a tool for long-term success.

• Setting boundaries in relationships and career ambitions.

• Final Exercise: Writing a commitment statement on embracing feminine power and personal success.

Key Takeaways:

• A strong sense of self-worth and personal power.

• Confidence in expressing emotions and intuition without fear.

• Practical skills to navigate leadership, relationships, and career paths.

• A deep connection with other young women on a similar journey.

This masterclass is an empowering experience designed to help women rewrite their stories, own their power, and step into success unapologetically.

Ages 14-24 "Rise Stronger" Masterclass for  Young Women
This masterclass is designed to take young women on a structured yet deeply personal journey toward self-discovery, confidence, and success. Through a combination of storytelling, real-world examples, and interactive exercises, participants will develop an understanding of their own power, resilience, and feminine strengths.

                                                        Answer questions in your journal

 Learning to determine my purpose..Looking at information and making my own assessments about what I believe and then writing it in my journel.. 

                                                                                         This poem is by Shree Danistha