Looking at Common Social Behaviours..

Looking at where we start.. Looking at the way we think and behave. What motivates people?  How do people operate daily to  start with..

We know people live with joy at times but also have fear about loss, and in the modern day often operate at a fast pace to cope with the pressures about money and also the social stresses. We all experience different degrees of stress.  

Looking at people generally...

Most people are conscious of "making impact or fitting in". This is the next topic of this program.   Why do people fear looking wrong and often say or do the  thing  that suits the current narrative, what people want to hear? Who are these people and how important are they? This comes alot for us all, and we all hav the same circumstances to contend with .

We are valuable and vulnerable , and we need to always protect our own sense of value to keep ourselves feeling good. Why?  We will just go through experiences where we get dismissed until we learn that lesson. it is just a fact.

So, we have all sorts of people responding in different ways to lifes demands. Some are conservative and follow dutifully to the expectations of people that they love, or a job role. Most people aconform like this and never consider  stepping out and doing things in a different way. It suits them to stay within the boundaries of what is accepted as the "norm' and they get uneasy dealing with people who push boundaries, They dont understand why people do, and can take offence when they are stretched, when they cannot grasp the reason why people push to be different or do things in a diferent way. 

Then there are people who have had unusual life hiccups which have forced them to grow and think in a different way. They tend to value being diverse, unique, creative. Its often because they have been stretched.

Then we can talk about the people that want to do the right thing, who can be conservative or not. They care about how they affect others, and they prioritise being "conscious " . maybe they have had a scare that makes them value life and see it all as a blessing. These people tend to prioritise living more consciously, noticing the beauty behind the game of life and they are grateful .    They usually  become gentle in their approach. 

Then  there are people who want to do the same thing as others to "fit in",  and they enjoy pushing limits because it feels powerful. There are people that enjoy outdoing others. 

At the end of the day, all people are looking for big results.. They all want to feel validated and receive rewards.  

Reflection:  What type are you?  How do you feel? "What role" do you play?

 Is it serving you? 

People get tested regularly to satisfy desires. The whole society has taken off with this..more than any other time in history, do people have so much choice. There was a time, when people were called "greedy"and were rejected and disregarded for wanting/expecting to get instant gratification.  Nowadays many more people expect to get satisfaction.. Some people get very sad if they dont meet expectations to make alot of money wheeas others are not as "driven" and go through life more simply, being contented with less. 

Some cannot get satisfaction even if they get what they want, every day. Lust/passion for results  can create a disturbed state of mind. Why dis-eased? Thats unfulfillment when there is no gratitude for the simple things in life...